Destructive Games

I never really realized some of the things that I've seen happen or have done myself were considered destructive games. It's really hard when your in a long relationship for those type of games not to be played at some point in every relationship. Like the "I don't care game" for example. This seems to occur with couples when they've reached the point that they are so frustrated that they just want their partner to shut up. I feel like these destructive games couples play have become very common in relationships. Obviously some couples tend to take the games too far, or the are playing them way too often. At times like this I would say it's a problem, but otherwise I look at these games as normal.